Copyright James E. Guilt and fear associated with religious beliefs have received little research attention. In a convenience sample of adults, fear of punishment by God was significantly higher for fundamentalists protestants than for liberal protestants, or for those with a personal faith not associated with a religious organization. Feelings of guilt for not living up to their religious ideals were approximately the same for fundamentalist and liberal protestants.
Dealing with Guilt and its Negative Effects Guilt!
It's a universal emotion. We all feel it. And I believe dealing with guilt is very important for our emotional and physical health. Guilt can literally "eat away at us".
It's one of the emotions that's hardest to let go of, yet it can create much dis-ease within our being. But what exactly is guilt?
My definition is "feeling remorse or negatively judging yourself for things you either did or did not do in the past, which you believe had a negative effect on someone or something else. Well, as a parent and I'm sure many other parents can relate to thisit's easy to feel guilty about your own behaviour toward your children.
We get cranky and impatient with them when we're stressed and tired; we feel bad when we don't spend as much time with them as we think we should; we regret not making it to a school performance - and there's about a million other reasons why parents beat themselves up and feel guilty.
Parenthood seems to bring a lot of guilty feelings with it. Then there's the things you said in the past to someone, and you saw the look of hurt on their face. Or the time you kept something that wasn't yours, but didn't have the courage to return it.
The things you feel guilty about will probably be completely different to the guilt that I hang on to. It may relate to something "big" or not so big in the grand scheme of things - but that is irrelevant.
All that matters is your perception of the events that created your feelings of guilt, and the effect that your ongoing guilt is having on your wellbeing.
Life is so diverse and full of so many different experiences that it's impossible to go through life without accumulating guilt - no matter who you are! But hanging on to guilt serves no purpose. I am not suggesting what-so-ever that we should go through life with no care about the effects of our behaviour on others.
If we never felt remorse or guilt, how could we ever care about how our actions may have hurt others? But overcoming guilt is about learning from our past actions, choosing different behaviour in the future, and then letting it go.
All guilt does is make us feel bad and keeps us stuck in the past. Feeling guilty about something is not going to change it, it will just drag you down - emotionally, physically and spiritually.
We hang on to it as a way of punishing ourselves. We think we need to stay feeling guilty as a way of acknowledging our perceived mistakes. In reality, the things we regret probably didn't affect the other person or people involved near as much as we think they did.
And the more we replay events over and over in our mind, the worse we seem to make them. It's like the old Chinese Whispers game going on in our head. But guilt is not always a conscious experience - it can often be below the surface without us even realising it, but it will still have an impact upon our behaviour.
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Negative affect from guilt and fear associated with religious beliefs is an important topic that has received little research attention. Freud (/) and Ellis (), use guilt as the foundation of their arguments that religion is neurotic.
The authors examine the pleasure a person experiences from hedonic consumption in the presence and absence of guilt. When Guilt Begets Pleasure: The Positive Effect of a Negative Emotion it is possible that associating guilt with the experience could have a counterproductive effect.
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